Objective: Make students confront whether their daily habits actually match their claimed values.
Instructions:
- Have each student list their top 5 stated values (e.g., growth, service, discipline, curiosity).
- Next, have them track their schedule for 7 days—every hour accounted for.
- Then have them produce a 2-page analysis answering:
- What percentage of my time genuinely reflects these values?
- Where am I lying to myself about my priorities?
- Which habits are steering my life by default instead of by intention?
- What are the three highest-leverage changes that would create the biggest shift toward intentional living?
Deliverable:
A concise 2-page write-up with charts or categorical breakdowns of how their time aligns—or fails to align—with their stated values.
Part 2 — Interpersonal Impact Map (Individual Work)
Objective: Force them to acknowledge that leadership is defined by how people experience them, not how they imagine themselves.
Instructions:
- Each student picks five people they interact with weekly (peer, teacher, friend, family member, someone they lead).
- They reflect on:
- How does this person likely experience me?
- What emotional residue do I leave behind after our interactions—positive, neutral, or negative?
- Where am I unintentionally creating friction, confusion, or insecurity?
- Where am I clearly adding value or clarity?
- They must create a 1-page “impact map” summarizing:
- Relationship
- Desired impact
- Actual impact
- Specific behavior changes to close the gap
Deliverable:
A one-page visual impact map (can be mind-map style, quadrant chart, or column layout).
Part 3 — 14-Day Intentionality Experiment (Applied Work)
Objective: Students must actually implement intentional behavior, not just talk about it.
Instructions:
For 14 days, students choose:
- 1 life habit to intentionally improve
- 1 interpersonal behavior (e.g., listening without interrupting, giving clearer expectations, expressing appreciation)
Every day, they record:
- What intentional action they took
- What resistance they felt
- What changed (internally or externally)
Deliverable:
A short daily log + a final 1-page reflection answering:
- What changed when I stopped operating on autopilot?
- What did people respond to most strongly?
- What does intentionality cost, and what does it pay back?
Part 4 — Final Synthesis (Presentation)
Objective: Cement learning by making them teach it back.
Instructions:
Each student presents a 5-minute synthesis:
- The biggest truth they didn’t want to face
- The behavior change that produced the most noticeable result
- The one intentional practice they commit to maintaining for 30 more days
- A specific challenge they want to give to other leaders
Why This Assignment Works
It pushes students to:
- Confront personal inconsistency
- Recognize their relational impact
- Practice deliberate change
- Communicate insights to others
It’s concrete, measurable, and impossible to complete honestly without growing.